When we applied for my UK spousal visa back in 2016, I was 7 months pregnant, hormonal, and full of hope.
We had done everything ourselvesāpainstaking research, a thick stack of documents, every box checked (or so we thought).
And thenā¦
Rejected.
To this day, I remember sitting on the floor of my apartment in New Jersey holding the rejection letter. That moment made something very clear: you donāt know what you donāt know. And when it comes to visas, that ignorance can cost you time, money, and emotional energy.
The Most Common Visa Mistakes Families Make
Since then, Iāve moved my family across three countries and spoken to dozens of other families whoāve done the same. Hereās what Iāve learned: most people donāt get tripped up by the āhard partsā of immigration. They get tripped up by the assumptions.
Letās break it down:
1. Waiting Too Long to Start the Process
Many people underestimate how long visa applications take or how long it takes to collect the documents youāll need. Start before youāre ready!
Tip: Always reverse-engineer your timeline. If you want to move in 6 months, start your visa prep 9 months out.
2. Not Understanding Country-Specific Rules
Each country has its own quirks. Some require you to apply outside the country. Some require translated documents or notarized letters from employers. Some want physical bank statements (yes, still).
Tip: Double-check which consulate youāre applying through as requirements vary even within the same country.
3. Assuming One Visa Type Fits All
Just because a ādigital nomad visaā worked for your friend doesnāt mean it will work for your family of four with a remote job and school-age kids.
Tip: Always choose your visa based on your life, not a trending article.
4. Thinking āDIYā Means āFreeā
Sure, you can do it yourself, but if you mess it up, the delays (or denials) can cost far more than hiring an expert upfront.
Tip: Know when to outsource. Even a paid consultation with a visa expert can save you months of frustration.
5. Missing the Small Print
Income requirements. Background checks. Timelines. Entry deadlines. They all matter, and one missed detail can derail the entire process.
Tip: Create a checklist for your visa not a generic one and have someone else double-check it.
The Visa Summit: Your Shortcut to Clarity
If youāre considering a move abroad, thereās one thing I know for sure: you deserve better than the midnight Google spiral.
Thatās why Iām hosting The Visa Summit on September 20, 2025. A one-day virtual event featuring visa experts from:
š²š½ Mexico
š¬š§ United Kingdom
šæš¦ South Africa
š¦šŖ Middle East
šØš¦ Canada
Weāre breaking down the visa process by region, lifestyle, and family structure, so you can finally move forward with clarity and confidence.
And yes, weāll cover exactly how to avoid the mistakes I just walked you through.
šļøĀ Tickets are on sale now,Ā and weāre keeping it small with only 30 seats, so everyone can get their questions answered.
This is what I wish had existed when I started. I created it for you so you donāt have to figure this out alone.


